West indian men

Why are west indian men so complicated...? Growing up and around west indian men, i found out, for the most part that they are very controlling, and always have to have it their way. From my father, to my uncles, grandfathers, cousins, friends, and ex boyfriends, i have learned that west indian me are just stubborn and childish. For example, i just recently got into a fight with a friend of mine (suprisingly 100% guyanese and not related to me...whats the odds) anyway... it started out silly arguing over who gets their way me or him. And he really got upset because he couldnt get his way around me. Is it me or do west idian women, women in general, or people in genral spoil these men to the point that they always do get their way? i cant understand it. My whole life most of the west indian men in my life (if not all) got their way and lived the whatever extremes that they wanted, leaving us west indian women left to suffer the consequences of their actions. I dont understand how and why west indian men always have to get their way, and if they cant they will get it any how and act stubborn about it until they do. They are also really big on womanizing and having multiple women around. I dont get it. In Guyana most men that i knew of had their wives at home, and their girlfriends in the apartment around the corner...if they could afford it. Most west indian men in my life have lived like this. And that is one of the major reason why i cant go live in Guyana. But it worked out for the man, and as long as he go his way that is how it was. I love my beautiful proud west indian men, but when they carry on they way they do, this is why i have to turn to americans or asians, because they cant cut it....i am not even going to get into the african thing, never ever ever....unless it was a lot of money for a green card, but even still i might not.... maybe? Anyway it is time for out west indian men to change, be a bit more open, accepting, not pig headed and obnoxious at times. Have one women and treat her with the same respect you show your mom. And maybe then i can think about being proud of having a proud west indian son one day.